lesbians and gay men have no control on who they are attracted to. Its like a girl whos mother wanted her to like pink all her life, had everything that was bought for her pink, until she thinks she loves pink. Then one day, she realizes she likes blue better. It didn't matter what her mother thought was right, or anyone else. She just LOVED blue. But it said in the bible Blue was evil. And hundreds of people hate her because she just doesn't like pink. She can't help it! She isn't being disgusting, she isn't being promiscuos with colors. She likes blue more. People try to define it as this reason or that, or that she just Doesn't really. She actually likes pink, they say, but she just won't acknowledge it because she is trying to get attention. NOT TRUE!! It is just what we prefer! Just our own brain liking one sex more than the other!! Not disgusting! After all, what is gross about a BOY kissing a girl? Nothing! What is gross about a girl kissing a girl? NOTHING! it just isn't what majority considers NORMAL. But, if most people decided it was normal for 8 year olds to smoke, would that be ok? no. Majority doesn't always know best!! Not for individual people!THERE ISN"T ANYTHING WRONG WITH IT DAMMIT!